​The Gauteng Department of Social Development recently hosted a Parenting Skills Programme at Katlehong Office, Eastern Corridor.
The event aimed to empower and educate parents by sharing essential information and skills for effective child-rearing. Attendees were also updated on new laws designed to help parents foster healthier relationships with their children.

Family and Marriage Society of South Africa (FAMSA) led discussions on various discipline approaches, distinguishing between punishment and discipline. "Parents should avoid punishing their children, as it causes emotional harm," said Ms. Phaphama Martins from FAMSA. "Be mindful of your words, name-calling damages a child’s self-esteem. Physical punishment fuels anger that can persist into adulthood."

Martins also introduced three parenting styles: "Jellyfish" parenting, where inconsistency prevails; "Brick Wall" parenting, which enforces rigid rules; and "Balanced" parenting, which is the recommended approach as it promotes consistency and nurtures healthy relationships.

Ms. Ntweleng Shadi from the Office of the Family Advocate, based at the Palmridge Magistrate Court, shared insights into how they protect the interests of minor children, particularly in cases of parental disputes, divorce, or custody battles involving unmarried parents. The Family Advocate, appointed by the Department of Justice, represents children in legal matters and works with registered Social Workers to resolve complex family situations.

During the event, parents were given the opportunity to raise concerns with the panel. Some were referred to service points in the Eastern Corridor for additional assistance. Among those present was Ms. Jeanette Nkosi, who expressed worries about her granddaughter's refusal to wear clothes she buys for her. Nkosi also mentioned challenges regarding foster care, as her neighbours interfere with her caregiving responsibilities.